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Question by Roshonda B: I have a question about sex...Men are encouraged to answer this too..?

Everytime me and my significant other has sex he gets geared to ejaculate and gets scared of the ejaculation being on him. I mean he freaks out about it and calls it nasty and disgusting and how he does not want it on him. Afterwards he stays in the bathroom for quite awhile making sure that he is super clean of the stuff he calls it. Well he is not that good in bed anyway but while we are in there he wants to talk about the size of his manhood and how he knows that he is not pleasing me and how I must have had men bigger than he before....this is really weird to me.....but I also noticed that when he talks to me he curves his hands and he sits with his legs tightly together on the couch. Sometimes he acts like he has to force himself to kiss me or touch me...I was just wanting to know is it me? or is there something wrong here? I like to caress after sex am I wrong?




Best answer:

Answer by Erin
It sounds to me like he's not comfortable with his own sexuality and probably isn't completely confident that he's being true to his sexuality. His reactions and fears indicate to me that there's something he doesn't want to admit to himself. These issues are his alone and have nothing to do with you. Unfortunately the side effect of him avoiding his issues is he's hurting you in the process.

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